November 2010
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Fascinating, nascent relationship game.
i’m one who enjoys the “high” associated with people are bluntly honest about feeling/thoughts, as they occur. i found this situation fascinating: after the occasions in which a first ‘date’ went long, warmly, ending back at my place, and the lady spent the night (consider that i wouldn’t have slept with this woman if i didn’t think a relationship was a...
Notes On Love & Courage:
socio-ethically there’s a perceived negative to dominant & passive. the terms alone. women can be anxious of losing her essential independence she worked hard for, and that independent drive can keep a chick anxiously driven to avoid anything that can jeopardize her individuality. she can then become more armoured to intimacy development…to the point she feels a love so strong, she...
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No 50/50...
50/50 ARGUMENT here’s some insight as to how see the loving relationship balance: i believe there is no such thing as a 50/50 relationship smile. given two strong personalities, 50/50 can find each looking for his/her 51% (or better). i have never known a 50/50 love that didn’t fall for shitty reasons. so some fortunate lovers have this intuitive understanding (not certain the...
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What People Say & Think:
it’s such a damned shame that women have been socialized to this anxiety a male will typically “run” from settling down. i’ve theory on this. smile. i think most “people”, guys aside”, have a pretty tough time saying what’s on his/her mind. thoughts/feelings, unless one is pretty comfortable in own skin, aren’t necessarily easy to articulate. ...
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Quick True Story:
quick true story: one night, years ago, my lover and i left a theater during torrential rains. i pulled her close and my coat up over our heads. laughing, talking about the storm, running towards the car. i could barely see my hand in front of my face. suddenly she gave me a hard tug to the left, i stumbled, caught myself, and we continued to the car. once inside, soaked, i asked why she’d...
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The Most Dangerous Woman.
“You are the most dangerous kind of female the world has known. You carry the seeds for your own destruction and the destruction of everyone who loves you. And a great many will love you for your beautiful face, for your seductive body; but you will fail them all because finally - it’s really about you. Reckless sarcasm, judgment, and usury are your tools. To you, it’s your sense of...
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I want you to feel as I feel.
“i want you to feel as i feel, to long as i long, to crave as i crave, i want your warm heart to set your soul on fire, just like mine is on fire, i want your whole being, your whole existence to burst into flames just like mine is in flames. i want your dreams to haunt you with my image, just like mine are haunting me …with yours. and i want god to make this desire come to be, if he doesn’t, then...
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Lovers Letters...
i get everything. i certainly understand what vulnerability and surrender are. the anxiety/fear giving yourself to another. the interest in being safe, heart, head, is only reasonable. you don’t know me and i expect you to ask questions, we should talk by phone when it seems we truly have same interests and extremes, and do your version of discovery to feel assured as you can a next step...
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