Anonymous asked:
Why? Because "bitch" is code for "you violated your gender role by not being pleasing to me" (regardless of whether it's coming from a man or another woman). "Ms. Bitch" means, "You're goddamn right I did, and I respect myself for it." Ironically, you are essentially accusing the artist of being a bitch for creating this, and she's essentially telling you she doesn't care how it might make you or "some guy" feel.

Anonymous (love those with fiery words, but without the balls to “show-up”), It is so very not my gender’s job, not another females to “please you”. Who the fuck do you delude yourself to be?  Someone paying you to cast global ‘judgements? You protest too much. Been hurt, poor choice(s), now sport “bitch” armour to deal w/ what’s left of your ego. 

Skippy, it’s less about men or women, and how “TWO” treat one another, smart relationship choices, and not running after bad people who will never love you as you need. Rather you martyr yourself on your bitch cross.

Tell you how it makes me see YOU: small minded, damaged, and a cunt (worst application of the word intended). Why not consider understanding what brought you to an absurd premise…and so much self-destructive anger?

Joshua

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response:

rightshadeofblue :
Okay, woah, that was a serious misunderstanding. I don’t expect anyone to please me. What I mean is that when someone calls *me* a bitch, what I hear is that I didn’t please *them,* and whether that other person is a man or a woman, I think “bitch” is a gendered insult. I personally tend to be deferent, especially in a relationship. But sometimes in life/work I have to defend myself, and sometimes I have to accept, maybe even embrace, being a “bitch” to do that. Sorry if I got bitchy about it…
We all have our moments. Thanks for clarifying blue. Smile.

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Posted on Wednesday, 22 February
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